Bitter Bitches

I am getting tired of my best friends, my boyfriend, my sibling, my friends and associates taking advice and venting to their bitter ass single friends. Its never the one in a long term relationship, or the one who is married or anybody who is an a healthy relationship. They always run to the bitter bitch who wants to see everybody single cause they are single and unhappy with their lives.

This is not a case of "those who cant, Teach". I will not subscribe to that school of thought in this particular case. Because if my plumbing goes bad in my house, or pipe busts open, or whatever, do you see me running to my friend who goes to fetch water out of the well each day on advice on how to fix. If my car breaks down or has some type of accident, I will not run to my friend who has totaled their car or let their car deteriorate to nothing help me with that situation. They are simply not in a position to help me. They should be helping themselves.



So why must we always call the most bitter, emotionally in ept person to guide us through our moments of emotional need? Why would I call my girl who has had no boyfriend of substance for the past couple of years, is in a period of perpetual "professional transition" to give me notes on success. Bitch! your bitter attitude is not confidence and its evidenced by your life! so get your life together and we can talk over lunch about some TV show. Yet they are always the first to offer their advice on my situation.

If i am single, and constantly calling on people to hear me out about my last conflictual sexual excursion that ended badly, than it is my fiduciary duty to keep to myself and just listen when you come calling about Mr. Boo thang! but it is also my duty to redirect any advice needed by you about mr. boo thang to someone with a working, successful relationship. I can guarantee that the first thing i will offer or try to say is, Girl if he aint doing right, you need to leave him alone! or some sugared up declaration like, Girl he better get his act together before its too late! That is old negro spiritual that should have been enslaved long time ago. Only bitter bitches will say some shit like that because of the fact that they only know to put time limits on things like relationships, and they only know to give up when things get too hard. they are bitter and it is beyond them to work through situations and see the bigger picture. And most importantly, they are to myopic to see the bigger picture, so be careful they are usually intoxicating and agreeable and become yes men in the presence of an angry you. they only bad, they only know failure, and they only know how to be bitter. so you can go have your pity party with them but their is a charge and it is your overall happiness and the success of whatever endeavor your cashing away because a shortfall.

Its just like when I went to go pursue my masters! (Ill be nice since people are sensitive to formal education and all its perils) Every damn, no associates having, no bachelors having, no masters having, and even those currently taking classes in such programs yet are "non matriculated" "graduate" students had some damn opinion about why i shouldn't pursue it. Bitch let me finish my masters and we both go down to whatever business establishment you choose and we will both will apply for a job. When you start calling me boss, i will then let you know how i feel about your lack of education at your 3 month review. Why are we encouraging folk not to better themselves? why are we telling our friends to give up on our relationships? or sowing the seeds to do so.....